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5 Things She Would Never Expect

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As I have followed my path in life I realize more and more that I am an Alien.

Women often say that I am every woman’s dream and every mans nightmare. It’s something I never thought twice about until I started posting articles about things I do to enhance my relationship with my wife.

I’ll never forget, there was a party my neighbor had and I was talking to another neighbor and I mentioned something I had done for my wife. He was astounded and said you do that for your wife??? My answer was yes it keeps the spark in our marriage. Remember why you married your spouse in the first place. Why should that change, why should the spark and romance be any different that it was when you met.

So, here are 6 things you can do that she would never expect and maintain the spark and romance in your relationship.

Guy’s, please understand that I do this out of LOVE and not  (what’s in it for me). Trust me you will loose EVERYTHING if you expect anything other than an amazing feeling of selflessness.

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Go to a party store and buy a balloon that says “I Love You” for no reason. Attach it to the mirror of her car without her knowing that you did it. Trust me, the element of surprise is worth a 1000 words…

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IMG_2337Pour her a glass of wine and place the remote next to the wine in front of the tv… Place some symbol of affection such as a heart or something that she would interrupt as a sign of love for you.

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So, this is great, get up a 1/2 hour earlier and make her morning coffee. It doesn’t have to be this huge project just a caring gesture… Here’s a hint, add some cinnamon in the grinds before it brews… I promise it will be a special morning.

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Totally unexpected suprises are an incredible sign of how much you care and truly one she would never expect…

It doesn’t matter what it is but the element of surprise is priceless. Purchase her favorite perfume and attach a little note that just says I Love You… Nothing fancy but amazingly effective. Hide it in plain site in a cabinet you know she will open during the course of the day.

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This is one of my favorites… Light her Fire in July… This is awesome, in the heat of summer crank the A/C up and light a fire.

Pick out your favorite beverage that you will both enjoy. When she comes home, greet her, kiss her and blindfold her. Gently take her hand and lead her into the room with the fireplace… Magic…

This is not Rocket Science. This is keeping a relationship alive for you and your significant other. It doesn’t take anything but common sense and a renewed feeling for the one you love.

I know there are many temptation out there but remember when you met your partner there was a reason why you wanted to spend the rest of your life with them and it wasn’t to cheat on them.

I hope this was helpful for you all…

The best thing you have is right next to you…

 

 

If I Don’t Know You, Why Should I Trust You?

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Well isn’t that a powerful statement! It’s something that has baffled me for years…Through the course of history people have been deceived, manipulated, hurt, killed, gone bankrupt, even committed suicide because of another person who deceived them.

Who are you to listen to me? Are you so naive that you would fall for something I said and do it? NO! That’s a fool’s choice and unfortunately, it’s a choice too many people make and end up losing everything. Look, it’s happened to all of us, we’re so taken with choices that we don’t look into the consequences…

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Let’s take buying a car for instance: There you are, knowing that you have a certain car in mind along with a certain budget that YOU can afford.

Then, along comes the smooth talking salesman and “BOOM” not the car, not the price, and not the experience you wanted.

Do you know what just happened? That salesman didn’t care about you or your needs, and you ended up falling prey to him. So, who won here? Hint: not you. He got exactly what he wanted – a higher commission check at your expense.

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How about that last relationship you were in that didn’t work out? Chances are you were blinded by their handsome or beautiful face and body, and then starts pretty much any relationship. I’m not saying to have surveillance put on your significant other but too many people are too quick to jump into a relationship for fear that they will never find anyone like him/her again.

There are 8 billion people on this planet, odds are there is at least one other person out there that is better than the choice you made. Please let me be clear, there are relationships that do work out. I’m one of those relationships – we’ve been together for 35 years (hard to believe), raised two amazing children and still love each other more today than the day we met.

So why have we been together for so long? Simple, we found value in each other and know we could depend on and trust each other. This doesn’t come overnight but getting to know someone is a critical factor to how your life will turn out.

Why Should I Listen To You???

O.K. enough about relationships… Here is why I originally wrote this article.

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As we go through life, we all have dreams, goals and aspirations of becoming successful. Have a career, eventually settle down and just live a good life. But for so many of us, life hits us hard.

It didn’t turn out the way we planned and now we’re in so deep that you wonder if you’ll ever get out of the situation you’re in. So what do you do? Look for options? Now here’s the brutally honest part of this article… In walks the next smooth talker offering you riches, income and cars like you’ve seen on TV and never thought you could have. “It’s easy, just become part of ‘The Team’ and we’ll take it from there.”

The truth is more times than not you have been scammed and out of desperation, you made a bad business decision. I’m just here to make you aware of future decisions and to have a different perspective when making big choices.

Donald Trump would NEVER make a business decision by looking at a company on the internet. Google is a great resource but that’s no way to research something you want to change your financial structure with.

My advice is to first form a relationship with whoever is offering you an opportunity. Second, find value for you, not him (remember the car guy). Most people unfortunately just want to recruit you and have nothing else to offer. That’s grounds for another disaster. Your mission is to find one that fits in with your lifestyle, not some one else’s.

I can’t count the number of times people have approached me and wanted me to “GET IN.” From my experience being a business owner and entrepreneur all my life I was able to go the extra step and find out the information to see if it was a “FIT FOR ME.” If it didn’t, I’d walk away.

Then one day, someone approached me with a new concept I’d never seen before. A doable business that was truly part time from home and actually paid us handsomely (No lie). It is a business that fit our lifestyle. I’m so glad I was able to say no so many times before, because I found the pearl in the oyster.

I hope I’ve opened your eyes to finding something that will bring happiness and value to your life. Next time someone offers you something that sounds too good to be true, take a step back and see if it’s for you. Research the company, make sure it’s a fit and that you can TRUST the person who you are dealing with. I wish you well and “No Regrets” in your next life changing decision.

James F. Sama